Smidge of Sex Ed

So often the phrase Sex Work is Work is shouted and posted online, and obviously I know that, agree with it, and support it, but I think that for many the phrase itself lacks context. The idea of sex work as work is questioned by numerous people because, at first glance, it seems easy peasy—like a walk in the park. And that isn’t the case. Sex work takes a lot of labor of various types, and since it is Labor Day, I figured it was the perfect time to chat about that a little more. So let’s do that! The...

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The beginning of the year can be daunting, overwhelming, and anxiety-producing because it feels like a time when we HAVE to change things. Whether it is our patterns, self, or goals there is a societal expectation that we have resolutions to “better ourselves,” which is a lot of pressure. So many of our resolutions lack guidance or design to make us successful in them, but I think we can do something about that at least as it relates to one New Year’s resolution–being a better communicator. Communication isn’t our strongest suit for many of us, and that is expected because...