Smidge of Sex Ed — Masturbation

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For a lot of us, when we think about sexual pleasure we think about orgasms, so let's talk about that. Firstly, why is it that sexual pleasure = orgasm for so many people? Well the main reason is because society has instilled this idea that the two are synonymous or go hand in hand. But that isn't true. Sexual acts can be pleasurable without leading to orgasm. The correlation is also deeply rooted in our society's phallic centered understanding and views of sex, but that is another conversation for another day. So what should you know about orgasms? I think...