Smidge of Sex Ed — Orgasms

Anal August is here and if you haven’t heard of it before it is a month about all things anal play, who doesn’t love that. I particularly love this month, because I feel like anal gets a bad reputation because there is not enough education about it. The anus is like the final sexual frontier for most people, something they avoid because they have only ever heard horror stories and bad experiences, but that is not inherent to anal play. That’s why I’m here talking about in this blog and all month long with my sex ed content, because with...

For a lot of us, when we think about sexual pleasure we think about orgasms, so let's talk about that. Firstly, why is it that sexual pleasure = orgasm for so many people? Well the main reason is because society has instilled this idea that the two are synonymous or go hand in hand. But that isn't true. Sexual acts can be pleasurable without leading to orgasm. The correlation is also deeply rooted in our society's phallic centered understanding and views of sex, but that is another conversation for another day. So what should you know about orgasms? I think...