Smidge of Sex Ed — Pleasurable Sex

If you don't have a partner but still want to partake in steak & blowjob day there are some sex toy options available for you. For a more realistic blowjob the Arcwave Ion is the way to go. This stroker uses the PleasureAir technology found in Womanizers to offer additional stimulation.    For a tongue like experience the Fun Factory Volta is a great option. You can drag the tip up and down the back of the shaft of the penis (along the deep dorsal vein).   For folks who like it a little hotter the Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Stroker is...

Valentine's Day is literally right around the corner and if you are a last minute shopper and feeling the pressure I have got you covered. Check out my Valentine's Day Gift Guide for all your gifting needs! You can find recommendations for gifts to love on yourself and to love on your partner(s)! Links for toys in this month's Toy Talk: Je Joue Amour Satisfyer Cutie Heart Fun Factory BOOTIE FEM

If you have heard me talk about anal sex at all, then you know that the anus is not self-lubricating, so lube is CRUCIAL for all anal play. And I have adamantly expressed how important choosing the right type of lube for you is. But where do you start on the journey to finding the right lube for anal play? Well, I am here to help. Here is a breakdown of how to go about finding your lube. Decide what anal activity you are going to use it for You probably already know this, but certain lubes can’t be used...

For a lot of us, when we think about sexual pleasure we think about orgasms, so let's talk about that. Firstly, why is it that sexual pleasure = orgasm for so many people? Well the main reason is because society has instilled this idea that the two are synonymous or go hand in hand. But that isn't true. Sexual acts can be pleasurable without leading to orgasm. The correlation is also deeply rooted in our society's phallic centered understanding and views of sex, but that is another conversation for another day. So what should you know about orgasms? I think...