A Non-Exhaustive List of Kinks

There is such an extensive list of kinks and fetishes for the different “deviant” things that people are in to sexually. Though there are hundreds this list only addresses some of the more common kinks that you may be interested in getting involved in or learning more about.

• Acarophilia - is a kink for scratching. This kink is most commonly attributed to rough sex when people scratch their partners, but it could be gentle scratching, the feeling of scratching with long longs, deep scratching that leaves marks, and everything in between.

• Age Play - whether you want to role play as a baby or role play as an older person, age play lets the you rewrite the number of years you’ve been living.

• Agoraphilia - if you are into having sex in public places this is the kink for you. It is important for me to remind you that sex in public places (outside of dungeons and sex parties) is illegal and carries with it a high risk, so be mindful of that.

• Asphyxiation - also known as breath play. If you are into being choked during sex then you more than likely have an asphyxiation kink.

• Bondage - cuffs, blindfolds, restraints—all forms of bondage. If you are into being bound and not having the ability to access your hands or legs freely, then bondage is for you.

• Chastity - cock cages and chastity belts are devices that inhibit stimulation of the genitals. If you ever wanted to put your genitals under lock and key you may want to give chastity a whirl.

• Degradation - you slutty little bitch. You scum of the universe. You undeserving piece of shit. Did that arouse you? You may be into degradation, when people talk down to you during sex.

• Double Penetration - when two orifices are filled at the same time; anal and vaginal sex, anal and oral sex, vaginal and oral sex

• Edging - have you ever gotten close to climax or orgasm and then stopped? Well congrats my friend, you have participated in edging. If you are looking for ways to beat No Nut Novemember without having an orgasm then edging is your friend.

• Exhibitionism - if you enjoy an audience for your sexual escapades then exhibitionism is the kink for you. Exhibitionism is when you are having sex/doing sexual acts in front of people. You need to have people’s consent for exhibitionism.

• Face sitting - whether it is to have your ass eaten or pussy eaten, face sitting is the beautiful art of using someone’s face as a table as their tongue offers you a multitude of pleasure.

• Fisting - this can de done vaginally or anally. This is when the entire fist is inserted into the vagina or anus for sexual pleasure. Depending on flexibility you can do this to yourself, have a partner do it, or use a fisting toy.

• Impact Play - hitting, punching, spanking, flogging, paddling, any form of contact on the body that creates impact whether it be gentle of rough.

• Masochism - do you love pain? Is it hot to you when the biting hurts? You may be a masochist which is someone that is aroused by pain.

• Medical Play - the wonderful role playing of doctor and patient, doctor and nurse, nurse and patient are forms of medical play. Medical play could also include the use of medical tools for sexual stimulation, such as a speculum.

• Pet Play - can’t house break your actual cat or puppy, but still have the desire to? Maybe pet play is for you. This is when someone acts like a pet for sexual enjoyment ad activities.

• Rimming - toss the salad, eat the groceries. Whatever name by any other name is still eating ass.

• Sounding - this is when someone uses urethral dilators to stretch their urethra for sexual stimulation. It is highly recommended to only use products made specifically for this purpose and not just any item you may find lying around the house.

• Voyeurism - I always feel like, somebody’s watching me (and I don’t hate it, I quite rather enjoy it). Watching other people engage in sexual activity (with their consent) is voyeurism, and without their consent is being a peeping tom and that is not okay.

If you are ever looking for more kinks and fetishes I highly recommend getting your hands on the Encyclopedia of Unusual Sex Practices by Brenda Love. If you don’t want to add a book to your library you can also check out this article.